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.skakla ke;=j 

ÿula kÕskafka kE'''

uq;= ;rx.d'

,mq,sk m%ido, fg,s kdgHh yryd ;u rx.k Ôú;h wdrïN l< weh bka wk;=rej fma%laIl ckhd w;r wu;l fkdjk pß; úYd, m%udKhlska ish rx.k olaI;d fmkajd" fma%laIl ckhdf.a is;a ;=< wu;l fkdjk pß;hla njg m;aj isák hqj;shla wo wd,skaohg meñK isákjd' weh rx.khg muKla fkdj k¾;kh fukau .dhkhg;a tl yd iudk olaI;d ;sfnkjd' weh kñka uq;= ;rx.d' 

* b;ska uq;+ fldfyduo Ôúf;a'@ 

fï ojiaj, rEm.; lsÍï iy ixkao¾Yk j,g iyNd.S fjkjd' tjd ;uhs fï ojiaj, lrkafka' 

* uQ;+ fï ojiaj, jeäh fmkafka ke;af;a fudlo@ 

fïl ug yefudau lshkjd" ux okafka kE lÜáh kd,sld n,kafka keoao lsh,d' wïudjrefka lsh,d fg,s kdgHhlg iyNd.S jqKd' ta fg,s kdgHfh;a rEm..;lsÍï bjr jqKd miq.sh ojiaj,' Bg wu;rj ueo f.or lsh,d uf.a kdgHhla hkjd' iqkaor pkaof¾ lsh,d ;j;a kdgHhla hkjd fï ojiaj,' 

* uq;= wmsg lshkak fldfyduo rx.khg uQ,sl wä;d,u jegqfKa@ 

ux ta ojiaj, fudaia;r kSrEmKfha fhÈ,d ysáfha' fudia;r kSrEmKh lroa§ úkdä lsysmhlska ishÆ foaj,a lrkak ´k' ta jqKdg rEm.; lsÍï lrkfldg fld<ôka msg ;uhs flfrkafka'‍ l=rEKE.," wkqrdOmqr jf.a m%foaY j,' b;ska ta ksid ug wdrdOkd ,enqK;a ux .sfha kE' miqjg uf.a mshdf.a ;,aÆj u; ;uhs ux fg,s kdgHhlg iïnkaO fjkak ´k lsh,d ys;=fõ' b;ska ug talg Woõl<d ks,aydka fikúr;ak uy;auhd' ta Tiafia ;uhs ux fg,s kdgHhlg iïnkaO jqfKa' 

* Tn rx.kh jD;a;Suh jYfhka f;dardf.ko ;sfhkafka@ tfyu ke;akï ;ukaf.a wd;au ;Dma;sh i|ydo@ 

ux tod b|du rx.kfha fhÿfKa jD;a;Suh jYfhka' fudlo ux rx.khg wdihs' bÈßhg;a ux ys;kjd rx.mdkak ug mq¿jka fjhs lsh,d' t;fldg;a uf.a jD;a;Sh rx.kh ;uhs' 

* Tn lshmq l;dfõ hïlsis wúksYaÑ;Ndjhla ;shkjd @ 

kE' wúksYaÑ; l;djla fkdfjhs' oeka fï hk rgdj;a tlal bÈßhg fg,s kdgHh thso okafka kE' wks;a tl ;uhs wms wÆf;ka tk kjl ks<shkag ;ek fokak ´k' fudlo yeuodu;a wfma rx.kh olskak fma%laIlfhda leue;s;a ke;=j we;s' wmsgu lsh,d fma%laIlfhda bkakjdkï wdihs' ta Wkdg ñksiaiq fjkig wdihs' fudlo wms ljodyß lido ne|,d uhs y|,d Ôú;hla .; lrkak tmehs' fudlo wfma Ôú;h yeuodu;a rx.kh ú;rla fkfjhs' b;ska tfyu fjkia fjkak;a mq¿jka bÈßhg' 

* fï ldrKh;a tlal Tng .=Kd;aul ;sr msgm;la ,enqfKd;a@ Tn n,kafka tys uqof,a ;sfnk jákdluo@ tfyu;a fkdue;skï pß;fha ;sfnk .=Kd;aulNdjho@

fufyuhs uu ú;rla fkdfjhs yeu rx.k Ys,amsfhl=u jqKdu yßu f,danhs fyd| pß;hla lrkak' b;ska uu biai,a,du n,kafka pß;h' tal fyd| pß;hla kï B‍g miafia ;uhs uqo, ;SrKh lrkafka' yenehs fï jk úg f.vdla fõ,djg fyd| pß; fjkqjg uqo, ;SrKh lrkak fjkjd' fudlo fyd| ;sr msgm;a ,efnkjd wvq ksid' 

* .=Kd;aul ks¾udK ìys fkdjkafka l=uk fya;=jla ksid lsh,do Tn lshkafka@ 

fufyuhs f.dvdla wh yïnlr.ekSfï mrud¾;fhkafka yeufohlau lrkafka' b;ska t;fldg fyd| ks¾udK ìysfjkjd wvqhs' fufyuhs fyd| ;sr msgm;a ;shkjd ux ys;kjd tajd ;j;a jeä ÈhqKq jqKdkï fyd|hs lsh,d' ux oeka olsk f.dvdla fg,s kdgHh j, fyg fjkak ´k foa wou wms okakjd' tfyu fkfjhs l=;=y,h lshk foa ;sfhkak ´k' biairyg fjkafka fudllao lsh,d wms yefudau n,df.k bkakjd' ta foa ;shkjdkï ñksiaiq ljqre;a leu;s fjhs fïjg' 

* t;fldg wmsg lshkak uQ;= fudkjf.a pß;hlao@ 

ux wdvïnr kï kE' ug tfyu ljqre;a lshkfk;a kE f,aisfhka' ux yeufjf,au yskdfj,d bkafka' ienE Ôú;fha fudk ;rï m%Yak wdj;a ux tjd .Kka .kak tlaflfkla fkfjhs' fï lfkka wy,d wks;a lfkka msg lrkjd' lafIa;%hg tkfldag tl tl foaj,a wdrxÑ fjkjdfka t;fldg álla ys; ßÿKd uf.a' b;ska ta jf.a wjia:dj, ux udi .Kka l,amkd lrkjd' yenehs oeka tfyu kE uu' oeka fudkjdyß wyqK;a tal ux ys;ska whska lrkjd' wks;a tl ux yeufjf,au yskdfj,d bkak ;uhs leu;shs' 

* wmsg lshkakfld n,kak wu;l fkdjk isÿùula lafIa;%h ;=< isÿ jqK@ 

“;drld u,a“ lsh,d Ñ;%mghl" tfla ug kgkak ;snqKd f,dl= Èhwe,a,la Û .,la Wv' ta o¾Ykh ux fldfydu yß .;a;d' Bg miafia ug ;snqfKa ta pß;fha yeáhg ueß,d bkak pß;hla' ux j;=f¾ neye,d ysáfha' t;fldg ug f;areKd ál ál j;=r uÜgu Wvg tkjd' ux ta;a thd,g lshkak .sfha kE' Bg miafia fldfydu yß thd,d udj f.dvg .;a;d' ál fj,djla .shg miafia lÜáh ug lsõjd wE;ska fndr j;=r tkjd lsh,d' fldfydu yß tfyu lsh,d fmdä fj,djhs .sfha wms ysgmq .,a ;,djhs ysgmq ;ekhs Tlafldu j;=frka hg fj,d .shd' b;ska ;j fmdâvla yß t;k ysáhdkï wms Tlafldau j;=r‍g hkjd' 

* miq.sh ojil iïudk”h rx.k Ys,amsfhl= jk c.;a pñ, uy;df.ka lïuq,a m%ydrhla t,a, fj,d fldkao w,a,df.k f.org fj,d ysáhd lsh,d wdrxÑ jqKd@  ta l;dj we;a;o@ 

biai,a,du ux c.;a whshdf.ka iudj b,a,kjd' fudlo uf.ka wymq foalg ux ta isoaêh .ek lsõjd' tal wmsg fjÉp tl isÿùula' tla;rd kdgHhl uu thdf.a ìß|" t;fldg thd ug .yk o¾Ykhla ;snqKd' c.;a whshd ug nhhs b;ska .ykak' uu lsõjd whshg nh ke;=u ug .ykak lsh,d' ke;skï thdg;a tal lrkak wudrehsfka' fldfyduyß ux tod we|,d ysáfha rd;%Shg w¢k .jqula" b;ska ta .jqu álla mgqhs' Bg miafia c.;a whshd ug .ymq fõ,dfõ udj lerls,d .sys,a,d uf.a fldkao jeÿKd t;k ;snqK .yl' b;ska talg ux we|,d ysáh .jqfï mgq ;;a;ajh;a n,mEjd' tal ksid tfyu fohla jqKd ñila ke;skï c.;a whshdf.a jrÈka fkdfjhs tal jqfKa' Bg miafia ál ojila fjklka fldkafoa wudrej ;snqKd' ‍Bg miafia fnfy;a .;a;du miafia yß.shd taC' 

* hïlsis mqoa.,fhl= m%isoaO fjkfldg lgl;d yefokjd jeähs' ta iïnkaOfhka fudkjdf.a woyilao Tng ;sfhkafka@ 

oeka n,kak c.;a whshdf.a l;dj ksid c.;a whshdj;a ckm%sh fjkjd udj;a ckm%sh fjkjd' ux kï ys;kafka wmsg l;d yok wh okafka kE tfyu l;d yeÿjdu wms ckm%sh fjkjd lsh,d' wmsj wdY%h lrk wh okakjd wms fudkjdf.a pß;o lsh,d' fld<U wjg bkak whfka f.dvdlau f.disma lshk tajd n,kafka' b;ska thd,d okakjd fudllao fï l;dj we;a; l;djlao tfyu ke;skï fndre l;djlao lsh,d' t;fldg fïjdfha we;a; ke;a; .fï f.dfâ wh okafka keyefka' f.dvdla whg fïjd kslka ueðla tlla fj,d ;sfhkafka fudlo pß;hg ydkshla lrkak ´k lsh,d ys;df.k ;uhs fïjdf.a ‍jev lrkafka' wmsg f.dvdla ÿrg ydkshla fjkafka wfma w;ska fudlla yß jeroaola jqKdkï‍' kuq;a wms lsisu jeroao ke;=j tjdf.a l;d yefokjdkï wms kslïu m%isoaêhg m;afjkjd' 

* fufyuhs iudch úiska È.ska È.gu m%;sm%ydr t,a, lrkjdkï tflka n,mEula kE lshkak neye fkao@ 

.skakla ke;akï ÿula k.skafka kE lsh,d lshkjdfka' fufyuhs we;eï ia:dk j,§ fudlla yß fmdä jer§ula isÿfjk tajd ;sfhkafka mq¿jka' kuq;a uf.a kï woyi tal f,dl= jdikdjla wfma kï m%isoaêhg m;a fjkjd lshkafka' yenehs wks;a me;af;ka ;ukag f,dl= wmslS¾;shl=;a fjkjd lgl;d ksid' fome;a;la ;shkjd fïfla' 

* Tn ys;kafka Tn ckm%shhso tfyu ke;skï m%isoaOhso@ 

uu ckm%shhs lsh,d ys;kjd álla ú;r' yenehs m%isoaO kE' ñksiaiq ug yßu wdofrhs' ta ksid ux ys;kjd ux ckm%shhs lsh,d‍' 

* rx.kh jf.au k¾;kh iy .dhkfhkq;a Tng olaI;d ;shkjd ta .ek;a u;la lruq@ 

fï foaj,aj,g iïnkaO fjkak mq¿jka fjkafka uf.a f.or ksid' fudlo uf.a f.or lshkak mq¿jka fïfla‍ fmr mdi,' uf.a wïuhs ;d;a;ghs mq¿jka fyd|g isxÿ lshkak' b;ska mqxÑ ldf,a wms yefudau tl;=fj,d isxÿ lshkjd' ta ojiaj, ta fj,djg uuhs kx.shs tl;= fj,d ye¢ folla wrf.k “fgdla fgdla“ Yíofhka kdo lrkjd' wïud mka;Srej wrf.k .ykjd' ;d;a;d fvd,alsh .ykjd' b;ska ta jf.a wms lÜáh yeuodu tl;=fj,d ;d;a;d ld¾hd,hg .syska wdjdg miafia isxÿ lshkjd' taflka miafia uf.a .dhk me;a; álla Wkkaÿ jqKd' talg;a Bg miafia ug yelshdj yïn jqKd' Bg miafia fudaia;r kSrEmKh" rx.khg wdjd' rx.kh .ek lsõfjda;a ;d;a;d ;uhs udj yeufõf,au Wkkaÿ lf<a' uf.a msámiafikau ysáhd' fï jf.a f.oßka ,enqKq wdNdIh ;uhs fï úÈhg È.gu fï lafIa;%fha bkafka' 

* Tn jeäfhkau leu;s fï ;=fkka fudk lafIa;%hgo@ 

ux jeämqrg leu;s .dhkhghs' 

* fï Èkj, l;d nyg ,lafjkjd k¿ kssfhda foaYmd,kh msúiSu .ek@  Tn ys;k úÈhg tal fyd|o ke;akñ krlo@ 

foaYmdkhg meñ”u rgg flfia fj;;a thd,gkï fyd|hs lsh,hs ugkï ysf;kafka' wks;a tl ux fm!oa.,slj ys;k fohla ;uhs l,d lafIa;%fha bkak wh foaYmd,khg tkak ´k kE lshk tl' talg fya;=j ;uhs wmsg wdorh lrk ñksiaiq folg fnfokjd tfyu jqKdu' ñksiaiq wdid udj tl pß;hlska oelaflda;a ta pß;fhka È.gu olskak' ‍ux fldKafâ lmkjdg ljqre;a leu;s jqfKa kE' wmsj biai,a,du fma%laIlhska oelafla flduyduo thd,d leu;s È.gu ta úÈhg olskak' b;ska ta ksid ux ys;kjd l,dlrefjl=g foaYmd,kh wjYH jkafka kE lsh,d' yenehs fufyuhs tal weú;a uf.a leue;a; ú;rhs' b;ska tal weú;a tl tlaflkdf.a leue;a; wkqj fjk fohlafka' uf.akï leue;a;la kE foaYmd,khg' wks;a tl ux okafka;a kE ta .ek' tal weú;a thd,f.a leue;a;fka wmsg talg uql=;a lshkak nE' yenehs fï wh foaYmd,khg weú;a hïlsis fohla lrkjdkï" l,dlrejkag ;sfhk m%Yak iïnkaOfhka fudkjdyß n,d lrkjdï wkak tal f,dl= fohla' 

 

* mjqf,a úia;r .ek;a u;la lruq@ 

 we;a;gu wïuhs ;d;a;hs" kx.shs thd,d yßu i;=áka bkafka' udj rEmjdysksfha olskfldg thd,g i;=gqhs' uf.a wdÉÑ wïud ;uhs i;=ákau ysáfha ud‍j rEmjdysksfha olskak' rEmjdysksfha fj| oekaùula hoaÈ thdg udj w÷k.kak nE' ta ;rugu thd frda.d;=r fj,d ysáfha' wdÉÑ wïud ;uhs udj yeufoagu Èßu;a lf<a' udj ta jqKg olskak ,enqfKa keye thdg' uf.a foudmshkag " kx.sg" udj fï lafIa;%hg f.kdmq ishÆ fokdgu ux fï fj,dfõ ia;+;sjka; fjkjd' ux thd,d §mq Tjoka ljodj;a wyl oeïfï kE' b;ska thd,f.a wdYs¾jdoh ug f,dl= fohla' 

* fï jevlghq;= lrkak Tng f.oßka ,efnk iyfhda.h fudkjf.ao@ 

uf.a kx.skï f.dvdla fj,djg wvqmdvq lshkjd uf.a' tal ug f.dvdla jákjd ' wïu;a lshkjd' tal ug f,dl= msgqjy,la uf.a wvqmdvq yod.kak' yefudagu f.oßka ,efnfoa ;uhs ux fjk mjq,la fj,d fjkska f.orlg .sh;a t;kg f.kshkafka' b;ska uf.a f.or ug fyd|g ;snqK ksid uf.a lafIa;%fh;a fyd¢ka bkak mq¿jka fjhs lsh,d ux ys;kjd' 

* uq;+ wdorh .ek fudlo ysf;kak@ 

ux kï lshkafka wdorh lshkafka fndfydau Nhdkl fohla' talg fj,dj fjka lrkak ´k fyd| isyshlska' fudlo f.dvdla wh wdorh lshk foa fmdâvlayß jerÿfKd;a ishÈú ydks lr.kakjd" tlaflda msiaiq yefokjd' fï jf.a f.dvdla foaj,a fjkjd' ux ys;kafka wdorh lshkafka ;uka wdorh lrkjdg jvd wks;a fl‍kd wdorh lrk foa ;uhs jákafka' tfyu fl‍fkla f;dar .kak wudrehs' tfyu ‍fl‍fkla f;dard .;af;d;a ;uhs Ôú; ld,fhau /f|kak mq¿jka' 

* fï fjkfldg uQ;+ wdorh ú¢ñka bkakjd we;af;a@ 

oekg ug iylrefjla bkakjd' fï wjqreoaog jir 10l ld,hla fjkjd talg' ux lafIa;%hg tk uq,a ld,fha§uhs thdj yïn jqfKa' b;ska thdf.ka f,dl= Woõjla ug ,efnkjd' thd ;uhs uf.a msámiafika yeufjf,au bkafka' tal ug f,dl= fohla fj,d ;shkjd' yeu foahl§u nh ke;=j ´kEu foalg uqyqK fokak mq¿jka fj,d ;shkjd' ux lsõfõ ug jvd wdorh lrk flfkla ;uhs wmsg .e,fmkafka lsh,d' b;ska ux ta ;ek bkakjd lsh,d ug ysf;kjd' 

* Tfí mdi,a Ôú;h .ek;a fï fj,dfõ u;la lruq@ 

mdi,a ld,h .;a;;a ux oÕÛ pß;hla fkdfjhs' fï jf.au ;uhs' fufyuhs ux hd¿jkag Woõ lr,d .=rejrekaf.ka .=á ld;a ;shkjd' ta jqKdg ux tfyu oÛ lrmq pß;hla fkdfjhs' ta jf.a iqkaor w;aoelSï ;shkjd' biafldf,a hk ld,fha ux yeu W;aijhlgu iyNd.S jqKd' ta ojiaj, ux k¾;khhs".dhkhhs folu bÈßm;a lrmq m%Odk YsIHdhdj jqKd mdi, ;=' ta fmryqrej;a f,dl= fohla jqKd ug fï lafIa;%hg tkak' 

* fï;dla meñKs .uka u. .ek Tn iEySulg m;a fjkjdo@ 

fufyuhs ux fï lafIa;%hg ug lems,s flá,s ;snqKd' ug llsÍula we;s jqKd uq,§' lems,s flá,s ug ;du jqK;a ;shkjd' ta ojiaj, wÆ;ska tk whg lems,s flá,s jeäo lsh,;a ug ysf;kjd' yefudagu fkdfjhs ug' ux okafka kE wehs lsh,d' b;ska ta ksid ta ojiaj, ux wjqreÿ 2la ú;r rx.kfhka fjkafj,d ysáhd' miafia ys; y|df.k" fudlo yefudau fï lafIa;%fha bkakjdfka fldfydu yß /¢,d' Bg miafia m%Yakhla ke;sjq wmsg biairydg hkak mq¿jka fjhs lsh,d ys;,d ;d;a;df.kq;a wy,d'ÿrÈ. ys;,d rx.khg fhduq jqfKa' ug yenehs ljodj;a fï lafIa;%fhka wys;la fj,d kE' ug yeufohlau lr.kak yefudaf.kau Woõ ,enqKd' b;ska ta yeufohlau fj,d ;sfhkafka udj rEmjdysksfhka oelal pß;h ksid' b;ska tal ksid ug f,dl= Woõjla jqKd tal' yenehs ux taflk fjk;a úÈfha m%fhdackh .kafka keye' ug fïl yßu jákd fohla lsh,d ;uhs ugkï ysf;kafka' ug fohsfhda ,n,d ÿkak ‍fohla fïl' talg ux yeufjf,au TÆj kj,d wdpdr lrkjd' ux ys;kdjd ug fïl jdikdjg ,enqKq fohla lsh,d‍‍' 

* fï;dla meñKs .uk ;=< Tng ia;+;s lrkak mqoa.,hska we;s' ta .ek;a u;la lruq@ 

udj fï lafIa;%hg fhduq lrmq yefudagu ia;+;sjka; fjkjd' ks,audka fikúr;ak" r;akisß whshd' Bg wu;rj wks;a ug Woõlrmq yefudagu uf.a wïud" ;d;a;d uf.a ifydaoßh we;=¿ uf.a fmïj;d' b;ska ta yefudagu ux ia;+;sjka; fjkjd udj fï ;ekg f.kdjg' ;j ug f.dvdla ÿrg hkak ;shkjd' ta iyfhda.h ug bÈßhg;a ,efnhs lsh,d ux ys;kjd'