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j,a lug wdfjd;a Wodßf.aka msßfukag ,efík foa

mqxÑ ;srfha wdl¾IKSh ks<shla jQ Wodß j¾Kl=,iQßh miq.sh ld,h mqrd ksyeähdjlska hq;=j ld,h .; lf<a uõ moúh ,eìu ksidfjks' oeka wehf.a ÈhKsh nyf;dark isÕs;a;shls' Wodß fï jk úg h<s rx.khg wj;S¾Kj isà' wef.a l,d Èúh .ek;a fm!oa.,sl f;dr;=re .ek;a oek .kakg myq.sh Èklwms Wodß wfma l;dnylg tla lr.;af;uq' 

* Wodß oeka wdfhu ld¾hnyq, ks<shla fj,d fkao @ 

idrx. fukaäiaf.a ‘iqiqug mjd ryiska’ lshk fu.d kdgHfha iy “jiaidk iuh” lshk fldgia yegl fg,s kdgHfha uu rÕmdkjd' i÷ka rdclreKdf.a “wdor oEila” fg,s kdgHfha;a rE.; lsÍï flfrkjd' Û<Õ§u fï fg,s kdgHh fma%laIlhkag oel.kak mq¿jks' 

* rE.; lsÍïj,g hoa§ ÿjj;a wrf.ko hkafka '''''@ 

ÿjg oeka wjqreoaohs udi wgla fjkjd' ÿj uf. ;d;a;g ndr§,d ;uhs rEm.; lsÍïj,g hkafka' yenehs b;ska ojia .Kka ÿr md;aj, kej;s,d bkak fjk ks¾udK kï Ndr.kafk keye' Wfoa .syska yji f.or ÿjf.k tkak mq¿jka ks¾udK ú;rhs ndr .kafka' fldfydu;a b;ska f,dafla ;shk yeu foalgu jvd uõmoúh f,dl=hsfka' 

* uj ks<slug fhduq ùu ksid isÕs;s ÈhKshg uõlsß wysñùu widOdrKhla lsh, ysf;kakeoao @ 

uf. ÿjg ta widOdrKh jqfKa keye' wehg ;ju;a uõlsß ,efnkjd' ta jf.au ÿjg oeka uõ lsß ú;rla uÈfka w;sf¾l wdydr;a Èh hq;=hs' fï yeu fohla .eku fyd|g fydh,d n,,d ;uhs uu kej; rÕmEug tla jqfKa' 

* ienE Ôú;fha ujla jqK;a Wodß ;ju;a mqxÑ ;srfha fmïj;shla @ 

Tõ" fï fg,skdgH ;=fkau uu fmïj;shf. pß;h ;uhs rÕmdkafka' 

* wfma rfÜ fuÉpr kj fhdjqka ks<sfhd isáh§ orejka bkak wïu,d fmïj;shkaf.a pß; rÕmEfï fudlla yß widOdrKlula Wodßg fmfkkafka keoao @ 

ienE Ôú;h lshkafka tlla' fg,s kdgHhl ;uka rÕmdk pß;h ;j tlla' fg,s kdgHfha fmïj;shlf.a pß;h rÕmdkak ´fka ta pß;hg .e<fmk fmkquhs rx.k l=i,;djhhs ú;rhs' wksl b;ska uu fg,s kdgH ksIamdol wOHlaIjrekaf.ka ,efnk wdrdOkd ndr .;a;d ñila ldf.kaj;a n,y;aldrfhka pß; b,a,df.k .sfha keyefka'

* we;af;kau Wodßf.a fmkqu kï ;ju;a mqxÑ ;srfha fmïj;shlg .e<fmk nj wms;a ms<s.kakjd' fudllao fï rej /l .ekSfï ryi @ 

we;a;gu tal ryilg;a jvd wNsfhda.hla' biair uf.a nr ;snqfKa lsf,da .%Eï mkia kjhhs' ÿj bmÿKdu uu f.dvla uy;a jqKd' uf.a nr lsf,da wiQmy olajd jeä jqKd' oeka uu ysáhg;a jvd fyd|g uf. weÕ yodf.k bkafka' oeka uf. nr lsf,da mkia myhs' 

* Wodß Th wNsfhda.h c.;af;a fldfyduo @ 

ÿj bmÿKq wÆ; uu ÿj .ek ú;rhs ys;=fõ' uf. rEmh ;rndrelu .ek ys;=fju keye' yenehs ÿjg udi lsysmhla .;fjoa§ wdfhu uu uf. YÍrh .ek;a ys;=jd' bkamiqj ;uhs Wkkaÿfjka lemùfuka wdfhu nr wvq lr .;af;a' 

* kuq;a lsß fok ujlg wdydr md,kh t;rï iqÿiq keye fkao @ 

uu kï ;kslru jHdhdï u.ska ú;rhs uf. weÕm; isyska lr.;af;a' wdydr md,kh yd orejdg lsߧu k;r lsÍu uu lf<a keye' uu tajd lShgj;a wkqu; lrkafk;a keye' 

* uq,au ldf, orejf. ishÆ lghq;= lf<a Wodß o @ 

Tõ" uu ;ksju ;uhs orejj kdjk" ljk" ‍fmdjk iEu ishÆ foau lfa' oeka Wk;a w;a Woõjg flfkla ysáhg uu f.or bkak fj,djg uuu ;uhs ta lghq;= lrkafka' uu ke;s fj,djg uf. ;d;a;d ta lghq;= lrkjd' f.or w;a Woõjg tk wh fjku mßirhl ye§ jevqKq fjku .;s.=K we;s wh' ta jf.a whf. fijfKa orejl= jeãu uu kï wkqu; lrkafk keye' 

* mqxÑ orejkag n;a leùu iuyr uõjrekag hqoaOhla jf.a @ 

yqÕla uõjre <uhskag lEu ljkak .shdu ta orejg lEu tmd lrjkjd' uu kï tfyu keye' ÿjg lEu ljkak yooa§ thd lEu m%;sla‍fIam lrkjd kï k;r lrkjd' fudlo mqxÑ uhs jeäysáfhda jf.a fndre lrkafka keyefka' ta jf.au ÿjg ksoyfia ÿjkak mkskak oÛ lrkak fokjd' thdgu nv.sks fj,d lEu b,a,k fj,djg ;uhs fokafka' t;fldg lEu ál Tlafldu lkjd' 

* wjqreoafoka jeä ld,hla Wodßf. ieñhd Wodßf. <Õ keye @ 

tal Tyqf. /lshdfõ iajNdjh' ieñhd isx.mamQrefõ ffjoHjrfhla úÈhg lghq;= lrkjd' kuq;a yels yeu úgu ,xldjg tkjd' ta jf.au ks;ru ialhsma tflka l;d lrkjd' 

* ieñhd ÿre rgl fjfioa§ .eyekshlg msßñkaf.ka hï n,mEï t,a,jk nj lshefjkjd' ks<shkag hï hï n,mEï t,a, jk njg;a u;jdo mj;skjd' ta w;ska Wodß wdldr follskau wkdrlaIs;hs @ 

l,d f,dalfha yefudau tl jf.a keye' úúO woyia we;s wh bkakjd' ta whf. m%;spdr úúOhs' uu yefudagu iqyohs' ta;a ta iqyolug iSudjla ;shkjd' wf;a ÿßka ;uhs yefudau tlal iqyo fjkafka' flfkla yefrkfldg ug lshkak mq¿jka thd tkafk fudlgo lsh,d' ta fj,djg WmdhYS,Sj taflka u.yer,d hkak ug mq¿jka' 

* kuq;a flfia fyda ;u wruqK bgqlr.kak m%pKavldÍ .;s we;s msßñkq;a iudcfha isákjd@ 

w;HjYHu jqfKd;a msßñfhl=g;a jvd m%pKavldÍ ùfï yelshdj ug ;sfhkjd' ta yskaod ux Th m%pKavldÍ woyia we;s whg nh keye' uu ta jf.a úúOdldr wjia:djkag id¾:lj uqyqK §,;a ;sfhkjd' fï jk;=re ux .ek msßñhl=f. ku iïnkaO lr,d lgl;djla yeÈ, ke;af; ta yskaod fjkak we;s' 

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